
Jodhpur

Annapurna Circuit Trek
In total, we spent exactly seven months (to the day) in India and Nepal. Not too bad for a honeymoon, we like to brag to each other. We’ve since met a few recently married people who spoke loftily about having taken two weeks for their honeymoon, “because the typical one week just wouldn’t do, ya’know?” We know. So how did it feel to be living out of a carry-on size backpack for such a large amount of time? Absolutely wonderful. We loved the total freedom and independence of going anywhere we wanted, whenever we wanted, with no set itinerary other than a general desire to see certain places when they had decent weather.

Bakhtapur
South Asia really is a perfect backpacker-style travel destination, and not just because of the minimal costs. We saw such a variety of scenery and cultures that looking back it’s hard to believe we only visited two countries. From the Buddhist monasteries and high alpine scenery of Ladakh, to the Himalayas of Nepal, to deserts of Rajastan, and the tropical beaches of Goa and palm-lined waterways of Kerala, and so much in between, this part of the world has so much to offer. Wonderful ancient history and art are spread throughout the subcontinent, the culture is fascinating, and you really have to work to be bored in most places. Of course not everyone would enjoy the subcontinent; you have to be able to look beyond the dirt and frequent stench, the poverty, crowds, the hassles, and you’d better have a sense of patience and humor. But if you’re able to embrace the lifestyle here and not get hung up on the more difficult aspects, you’ll find a place that is absolutely exploding in color, music, tastes, and a wonderful enthusiasm for life. We miss it.

Varanasi
We know many of you are curious about how a young couple, without the types of careers (and salaries!) that would preclude dropping off the US map for seven months, could afford such a trip. Well, it’s quite simple: India and Nepal are cheap. Very cheap. We found that we could enjoy ourselves just fine on an average of about $30 USD a day (as a couple, so $15/day per person). Honestly that was without really worrying about the budget that much, at least by our dirtbag standards. That’s not to say India can’t be expensive; there are plenty of luxurious options for dining and hotels where the sky is the limit for costs, and trains that cost more than flying. We just happen to be happy eating in local style restaurants and sleeping in, uh, “atmospheric” hotels. Take the dirt cheap and not too bad sleeper class trains to get around, learn not to get ripped off too egregiously by the rickshaw drivers, and you’re set. There were plenty of days when we spent less than $10, and we probably could have averaged that if we’d really scrimped, plenty of people do. I just don’t think it would be very fun. We spent about $3400 on airfare, consisting of two sets of one-way tickets purchased through Kayak.com. Visas ended up costing about $400 ($100 per person for one year in India, and $100 p/p factoring in extensions for 90 total days in Nepal), and we spent about $600 for (unused, but you really need to have it) medical and evacuation insurance from Worldnomads.com. Immunizations were a few hundred bucks, but most last a long time and we wanted them for future trips also; I’m still factoring them into the total trip cost, which is: about $11,000. We made it a priority to save travel funds and lived very frugally (we were lucky in that we had parents who let us crash with them for that time rent free) for about five months while working a couple jobs each. We were able to save enough for the trip and some money to come home to without much difficulty, and we consider travel a better investment than a new car or plusher lifestyle.

Elephant top Safari in Chitwan, Nepal

Last time at Alta
I have certainly wondered many times if we’re being irresponsible by not starting our “real life.” This year will mark yet another that I’ll be putting off going to graduate school, and a great many people would snort upon reading my previous sentence equating “travel” with “investment.” But it’s hard to put a price tag on freedom and personal growth, and the opportunity to travel and see so much while spending so much time with someone you love. We’re really not interested in home ownership at this time; a mortgage sounds like a huge and unwelcome anchor, the investment value is uncertain, and the taxes and insurance alone would pay for a decent apartment in many parts of the world that we’d like to live in. We’re not interested in most material goods, so that leaves saving for retirement, but the financial events of the last year have convinced me that security in this age is an illusion, and there really is no “safe route.” Had we invested our money in the stock market we could easily have lost half of it, and not experienced a trip of a lifetime. There is no telling what the future will hold, so we’re planning for it as best we can while living life as fully as we can at the same time. We’ve spent the last five months saving up a nice sum of money working as servers out here in New York, and we’re spending this winter living in Alta, Utah, where we’ll ski everyday in some of the best snow in the world. After that, who knows, we’ve got some extended sea kayak journeys in mind, and South America is sounding pretty good.



British buildings. The streets in this part of town were different from those we had seen everywhere else in India, they were wide with large sidewalks under tall leafy trees. It was possible to actually walk down the sidewalks without being bumped or surrounded by people. Despite the grandeur of the buildings and the obvious wealth that flows through Mumbai there were still signs of the poverty that exists in India on every street corner. Mumbai is a city where the world’s fifth richest man Mukesh Ambani is building the world’s most expensive home; a twenty-seven story skyscraper complete with three heli-pads, a “cool room” with man made snow, 168 parking spaces, and will employ 600 servants when finished. Mumbai is also a city where the workers who are building Ambani’s skyscraper most likely live in one of the slums, where seven million other Mumabi residents live, and the average income is about $2 US per person.








A typical day went something like this: Wake up around 9 or 10am, and wander out to the ocean to take a little morning swim. Dry off in the shade with some coffee and oatmeal or fruit for breakfast (maybe $3 for both of us) at our hut hotel’s restaurant, while we read or play cards and discuss plans for today’s strenuous activities. Go for a walk/swim along the beach, maybe climbing over the headland to the adjacent beach where a five star hotel is set back in the palms, it’s guests paying hundreds of dollars a day. Suckers. It’s starting to heat up so maybe go read in the shade for a while at our hut, or hide in the AC for an hour at the internet cafe ($.75/hour) while we catch up on Google news and emails. Try to remember to wear sandals when we walk to our favorite lunch destination up the beach, the sand gets hot this time of day! Order that delicious hummus plate and salad, maybe a couple kingfisher beers (for a total of about $5), and read and relax for two or three hours in the cushioned floor seating area, running out for a few quick swims whenever we get hot. Take our books back to our hut and then go for another swim, doing some body-surfing if the waves are big enough. Play with Cookie and Cashew (the German Shepherds) for a while. Play some more cards. The sun is setting so it’s time to head to Papaya’s restaurant for their King’s beer (a good pilsner) happy hour, an incredible 12 rupees (less than a quarter) a beer between 4pm and 9pm, and either eat there or at one of our other favorite restaurants while we look for that elusive green flash sunset, never spending more than $10 and usually a lot less. Enjoy dinner and the cool nighttime temperatures with our toes in the sand, listening to the surf and watching the candles flickering up and down the beach. Go for another walk, then head back to the hut to read and a restful nights sleep under our mosquito net. Big plans for tomorrow, we need our rest.
little beach; one day we walked over the nearby and better-known Palolem beach, which was larger and much more crowded with tourists, and we immediately found ourselves wishing we were back at Patnem. We took a rickshaw a couple times to a nearby town to use the ATM, but never really had the impulse to explore; we were pretty spoiled in our little beach cocoon. Our most active days were when we rented the tandem kayak ($1/hour) from up the beach and paddled out through the surf to look for dolphins, which we always found. They would arc up past the surface of the water with a surprisingly loud puff of air, gracefully wowing us as they swam around. It was so cool to be out in the totally quiet kayak, rather than the stinky motorboats that took tourists out on expensive “dolphin cruises,” and we paddled a long ways up and down the coast on several occasions.









From Ahmedabad we took an eight hour or so night train headed east to the hub town of Jalgaon, and upon arrival immediately made our way to the bus station to catch a ride to the famous Ajanta caves about two hours away. The bus drivers know where to drop you- basically a wide spot on the highway- and from there you just walk through the parking area into a kind of tourist mall filled with vendors and food shacks. There weren’t many tourists around when we were there so all the vendors were pretty desperate for business and we felt like we were running some kind of gauntlet making our way through. We bought our tickets for the transport bus that takes visitors the few miles further to the cave area entrance, checked our backpacks, and suddenly found ourselves walking up the long flight of stairs to the Ajanta Caves.

weren’t disappointed. Ajanta is a complex of 29 separate caves cut into the cliffs of a curving river gorge. Walking up and seeing the first dramatic views of the area was an incredible experience, which only got better as we explored inside the various caves. The oldest ones date from the second century BC, and are primarily of Buddhist origin. Some of the caves have beautiful original artwork and murals that are still in remarkable condition, and almost all of the caves are filled with amazing sculpture and architecture. There was restoration and preservation work happening in various places, and many of the caves had surprisingly good low level unobtrusive lighting that allowed us to see just well enough inside the otherwise dark interiors. All in all an amazing place that is well worth seeing.









After a few days in Udaipur we parted ways with Mark and Allison, who caught a flight to Mumbai and then out of India. We stuck around for a while and then boarded a train for Ahmedabad. It’s a very large city, pretty far off the tourist trail, with a high percentage of Muslim residents that lends it a different feeling compared to most other places we’ve been in India. We only spent a couple days here, but enjoyed spending time in a place where tourism doesn’t feel like a major factor. The food was great, the wandering interesting, and we especially liked our visit to Gandhi’s Sabarmati Ashram.










